Great Dates That Will Lead To The Bedroom

A woman decides if she's going to have sex with you within the first few minutes of a date so it's important to make sure the date is appealing to her interests. Don't get me wrong, men need something appealing too on dates; but a genuinely interested man will worry more about the woman he's with rather than his interest level in a date activity. Finding something your date can be passionate about is a great start! Some people are the typical movies, popcorn, and cuddling types who will gladly follow you back to your apartment after a in-the-dark kisses. While others need more caress and time to decide if you're bedroom material; this means uniqueness, imagination, and creativity may be the key to ensuring your night ends with a bang; instead of a fizzle!

-- If your babe is a partier, then get into the party scene. A little alcohol will loosen everybody up and make lust fulfillment a bigger possibility. Plus, if your date sees you interacting well with others while keeping your interests in her, she'll be head over heels and ready to make the commitment for a late-night tryst. We're not talking full-on college keggers, but a nice casual party with friends or a local costume/wine-tasting party advertised in a newspaper could be your ticket to bedroom success. Remember to be thoughtful and attentive throughout the night. Flirtation and teasing is far more seductive on a date than just being flat-out perverse.

-- Think your place! Or an extremely nice, very upscale hotel room if you have a roommate. The location usually implies the intention but having a romantic evening isn't all about sex, even if that's one of your goals for the night. Cook a nice, healthy dinner for your date. That's right. Cook! No eating out or ordering in. When you prepare a meal, it shows you're taking the time to make a lasting impression. We give you permission to order amazing room service though if you've opted for the hotel idea. For dessert, try a bottle of champagne and chocolate fondue with strawberries. It's a sensuous way to wrap up the eating portion of your evening while having personal conversations that could lead to intimate physical contact. Chocolate is a natural aphrodisiac which means you'll both be in a loving mood before too long.

-- Hit the dance floor! This is a classic date that will get almost anybody lucky. Women crave seduction so slow dances are ideal for the mood, although the club scene works well with daters who are into the usual bump and grind. Your bodies are pressed tightly together, staring into each other's eyes or nuzzling necks, you're swaying and before you know it, your bodies have responded to each other in a very sexual way. A woman can tell how you'll make love by the way your body moves against hers. She wants fluid motions and rhythm, not mad-dog humping brutality! After dancing, invite her back to your place for a night cap and before long, you'll be doing the horizontal mambo!

If you're interested in sex with your date, then it's crucial to get to know them first. The third or fourth date is when you should probably start implementing your bedroom savvy techniques. A one night stand will only get you an angry date who hoped for more, unless both of you are on the same page. Don't extensively talk about sex unless the subject comes up and let the best of your personality shine. Dates that end in sex are usually passionate, hot, and very personal.

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Rejuvenate Your Sex Life And Say Goodbye To Bedroom Boredom!

Are you suffering from "bedroom boredom"? Are you ready to rejuvenate your sex life and take it from lukewarm to sizzling hot? Please read on...

If you and your partner are ready to take your sexual relationship to a whole other level and reach new heights of sexual ecstasy, you must first understand a few things about each other's bodies and sexual responses.

People differ in their sexual responses much in the same way as they do in their physical appearance and their personalities. When you begin to explore your own sexuality, you will not only get to know yourself better, you will also develop more self-confidence. It's like my tantra teacher once said, "Nothing builds self-confidence like sexual-competence."

When you get to know your own sexual responses, you should also learn about your partner(s). Find out how he or she likes to be touched, kissed, caressed and more importantly, what their inner most desires are. To do this, talk to your partner about their sexual preferences and be open to listening attentively to whatever they share with you.

Additionally, there are certain sexual techniques you can practice to increase your own pleasure and your partner's...

1. Pelvic Control: When you learn to control the muscles of your pelvic region, what is often referred to as the PC muscles, you can multiply sexual pleasure, increase genital health and men can more easily learn ejaculation control. Pelvic exercises are sometimes called 'kegels" and they require simply tensing the muscles of the vagina or penis, as though you were stopping the flow of urine. There are different methods people use to exercise the muscles of their pelvis. Some people use repetitions, as though they were exercising any other muscle. For example, a method I like is to tighten the pelvic floor, holding it for a count of 10, then slowly releasing. The great thing about this technique is that it can be done anywhere whether you are at home, at work, on the bus or waiting in line at the post office. It is basically imperceptible to most people.

Also, the "towel technique" can be very effective for men who suffer from premature ejaculation. It consists of placing a towel or wash cloth over the man's erection and squeezing the PC muscles to lift the towel, which acts as a weight. Over time, when the muscles of penis begin to strengthen, he can graduate to wrapping a silk scarf around his erection, with a small weight attached.

2. Ejaculation Control: Tantric techniques encourage ejaculation control and semen retention in men as being the most powerful sexual skills that a man can acquire. It is believed that orgasm without ejaculation can help a man preserve his yang essence, allowing him to prolong intercourse and give his partner the chance to reach orgasm. Moreover, it can help a man learn to experience multiple orgasms (yes, it's possible) because sexual energy amplifies, when it is not given the chance to dissipate.

3. G-Spot Stimulation: Other techniques that couples can use to enhance sexual pleasure include stimulating a woman's g-spot. Located about 2 inches from the top wall of the vagina, the g-spot is about the size of a quarter and slightly rougher to the touch than the surrounding tissue. The g-spot can be stimulated manually by placing two fingers inside the front end of the vagina and drawing the fingers in with a "come hither" motion. The g-spot can also be stimulated through intercourse or tantric techniques.

4. Relaxation: Studies have shown that women and men differ in the way they have sex. Brain scans of men and women having sex have revealed that men rely more heavily on physical stimulation, while female sexual arousal seems to depend more on deep relaxation and the lack of anxiety. So if a man wants to please a woman in bed, he needs to make sure that she's sufficiently relaxed. If she needs help unwinding after a hard day at work, he can guide her through a meditation, massage her with aromatic oils or my favorite yet...blindfold her and tantalize her gently with feathers and silk scarves. Keep in mind that a man will be contributing to his own sexual pleasure, when he is assisting a woman in hers.

5. Tantric Sex: Discovering tantra can not only rejuvenate a sleepy sex life, it can also help us achieve heights of sexual ecstasy, we may never have imagined ourselves capable of experiencing. In tantra, the interplay and balance between the male and female aspects of our personalities (Shiva & Shakti or Yin & Yang) are an essential part of lovemaking. The male characteristics such as intellect, ambition and assertiveness make him the "giver" during sex, while the feminine nurturing, intuitive and receptive nature of the woman make her the "receiver". Couples often have these gender roles reversed, where the woman is more of an active giver, while the man more passively receives. While it can be exciting to experiment with different roles, great value can be gained when both partners are given the chance to express themselves with their most natural way. When a woman relaxes, she can let go of "control" and enter into a state of "allowing" where she opens herself up to receiving. Her partner can then more easily enter into his yang or male energy, which leads and "penetrates" the yin or feminine essence.

If you are ready to take your lover beyond the normal sexual experiences and help her release new heights of sensual ecstasy, learn these powerful sex techniques help enhance the love in your relationships. Or for more information visit http://womenawakened.com/

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