Showing posts with label Benefits. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Benefits. Show all posts

2011/06/28

Benefits of Giving Her Great Sex

It would seem that this topic does not even need discussion, but statistics I have looked at recently say otherwise. Why would you want to give her wild, orgasmic, white-hot sex? A better question would be why not? The following tenets will motivate you to improve your sex life no matter if you have been consciously or unconsciously ignoring it. This article is mainly directed towards those who are oblivious to their female lover's actual sexual satisfaction.

Drastically Reduces the Chance of Her Cheating On You

If she is experiencing great sex with plenty of orgasms, variety, and emotion then there is little reason for her to look elsewhere for gratification. Her sexual needs are most likely met. Become her best lover and know that she will never forget you. Great sex causes us to turn a blind eye to bad issues in the relationship for a while. If on the rare chance that you separate, know that she will crave you. It's hard to forget someone who can completely satisfy you sexually because they know your body better than you and constantly give you different types of orgasms.

She Will Crave Sex More Often

The simplest way to make her want sex more often is to give her great sex. Rare is the human being who only wants a great thing once. Improving your sexual knowledge and skills will cause her to desire more of these mind-blowing sexual experiences with you once she knows that you can give them to her.

Great sex doesn't simply mean having sex in new positions, new location, or toys. It means giving her a variety of strong emotional experiences. Strong emotional experiences can drastically enhance any new positions, toys, or locations you try out. Dirty talk can be a great way to elicit strong emotions and arousal.

She Will Be More Open to Experimenting With New Things

Think about it, if she knows that you safely give her mind-blowing experiences, when you mention something new she will trust you. She will even begin to bring up new experiences she would like to have.

Having a woman's sexual trust is the result of safely and pleasurably giving her new sexual experiences. Giving her different types of orgasms, mastering the tease, and learning vulva/vaginal massage are all things that implicitly let a woman know that she can trust you with her sexuality. She will feel your nonjudgmental attitude towards her sexuality and begin to open up and share fantasies and turn-ons that you never knew she had.

Learning how to please a woman sexually is one of the greatest things you can do to improve how you relate to women. Sexual confidence is something that all women notice and are attracted to.

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2011/06/15

Are You Friends With Benefits? Rules for Women

The single most important thing a woman must know when she engages in a friends with benefits relationship is that it is very dangerous to convince yourself that a casual sex relationship is destined to turn into a romantic drama where the fantasy of Mr. Right Now is going to turn into a reality of Mr. Forever. This is why a woman must be in control and realistic about what she is looking for. Having said that, giving you the necessary cautions of a friends with benefits affair, then let's get onto the fun stuff!

There is nothing new about dating. Dating is about socializing with many different people in order to have some fun, develop who you want to be, and maybe find a lifetime companion. The beautiful benefit of dating today is that a physical relationship, that's sex, is no longer taboo.

A courting couch can now be thought of as an interesting place to try out the latest and greatest sexual positions rather than a barrier for your libido.

So ladies, Rule Number 1: When you embark on a friends with benefit arrangement, understand that secretly hoping to manipulate the situation into a commitment is against the rules. Not against the rules of online dating, but against the rules of maintaining your dignity and power.

Some people believe that casual sex is degrading for women. This is an absolute myth. You only become exploited or degraded if you allow it. Learn how to engage in sex as effectively as possible but always in the service of your own objectives.

Rule Number 2: Your objective in a friends with benefits relationship is to have someone to have sex with when you want to without the emotional involvement of a committed relationship. That's it. You want to go out, have fun, with a member of the opposite sex and every now and again get tangled in the sheets. No apologies, no promises.

You may be building your career, going to school, or just not interested in getting married or being in a committed relationship. It doesn't matter what draws you to a friends with benefits relationship. What does matter is that you enjoy the casual sex. You have to turn off your "gal pal" chatter or family objections if they tell you that you should be settling down.

That decision, that one where you decide that you are ready to look for Mr. Forever, is completely up to you. And, despite the ticking of any sort of internal clock, doesn't rely on the calendar. After all, there is always adoption!

Rule Number 3: If you desire a commitment at some point in the future, but just not from your friends with benefits guy, then own up to it. Be smart with casual dating and casual sex. Face it, we are in an age of sex before love. You can enjoy an uncommitted sexual relationship without feeling obliged to justify it with a commitment.

You will know when the right one comes along. And when that happens, you will have the power to handle it because you will be confident as a result of your successful casual relationship. You will know that it's different and behave differently than in a friends with benefits, casual sex, no strings attached dating affair. Don't be afraid to have fun. And don't be afraid to toss the ideal of a commitment to the wind until you are ready for it.

Lisa Devine and her partner are experts on sex and seduction. They met online through an adult dating site and only come up for air when they have something new to share. Other times the door is locked with the "Do Not Disturb" sign on the handle. If you would like to receive more free tips on sex and seduction then hop on over to RandyRabbits.com


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