How to Make a Girl Climax Perfectly

As much we are now living in an era where people are more open to sharing information regarding sex, there are still many men out there who have no idea how to make a girl achieve climax. Of course most would not admit this for fear of being ridiculed. Girls on the other hand won't admit publicly to not having experience orgasm for fear that they might be labeled as unusual. Most girls also don't have the guts to tell their partners outright what will make them achieve orgasm either because they don't know it themselves or just too shy about it. This is especially true for those who are not yet sexually attune with their selves. Thus, they end up faking orgasms just to please their partners.

What could be more daunting for a man to know that his girl was just faking her climax? Could this be attributed to failure on the part of the man to satisfy his partner? Well, yes. In order for a girl to climax, her man should know how to give her the correct loving to make her orgasm. That is why there is a need for these men to know a little about the sexuality of women. Knowing a female's basic anatomy will come very handy when it comes to sexual gratification. If you know how a particular body part of a woman behaves and responds to your touch or kiss or caress, then you can add this information to your arsenal of data as you go into the actual lovemaking scenario.

No two women are alike therefore men should vary their techniques depending on what best suits their women. However here are some solid tips which would help any man make a girl achieve orgasm, no matter what techniques to employ.

First of all, you have to make a girl comfortable and well-settled before you even begin foreplay. A relaxed and comfy girl will not be difficult to stimulate. Whereas, an agitated and tense girl would probably take hours of foreplay before she will even begin to melt down in your arms. If you don't know what makes your girl hot and you are time-constrain to test every technique you know on her, better ask her outright. Asking a girl what turns her on, or does she want you to do something particular to boost her libido is a manly thing to do. Unlike what others believe, asking her is actually very considerate and kind of sexy when done appropriately. It shows that her satisfaction is uppermost in his mind.

Putting on a musky scent would also be a great aid towards increasing a girl's sexual desire. Smell plays a powerful role in sexual context and can trigger lasting and unforgettable memories. Musky scents are very male in its essence and would actually boost up her libido. It would also trigger some sensor in her brain that will remind her of your last sexual encounter and what it feels then.

Keeping your woman's feet warm will also definitely aid her to achieve climax. This has been proven by Dutch Scientists who conducted research on the connection between having cold feet and orgasm. Thus keeping her feet warm by wearing socks, or giving her a foot massage with a warm gel before the act or sporting stiletto heels is a must. If you want her to reach orgasm, you must not fail to massage and stimulate her erogenous zones. These would include her neck, the small of her back, breasts, thighs, buttocks and of course her clitoris.

Going down on your girl would be the best way to make her climax. After you have stimulated her sensitive spots, turning your attention on her triangle area between her legs would boost her sexual anticipation. Multi-task and be versatile when performing cunnilingus on her. This means using your mouth, tongue and hands in making love to her down there. You can stimulate her G-spot using your hands while you suck on her clitoris and labia. Alternately sucking and flicking your tongue over her clitoris can produce sexual jolts that would definitely up the notch higher towards orgasm. You can also stimulate the insides of her vagina with your tongue. Use it like a penis and thrust it into her in the same rhythm and pace as you would during intercourse. Since it's more pliable than a penis, it can reach territories inside the vagina that a male's sexual organ could never explore. As an added sensation, you can even insert your finger in her anus as she is about to orgasm. Of course, you should not force this on her if she does not like it. You would know soon enough if she's into this or not by the way she reacts to your gesture.

For more information, read these articles on how to make a girl cum and on how to use a vibrator.

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Take Your Climax Up a Level

When it comes to making love most people are concerned or fear that they are doing it incorrectly. This is because they feel as though their climax is never reached, or they feel unsatisfied upon finishing. It is important to keep in mind that reaching climax is not the ultimate goal of sex; it is having fun throughout the entire process. This is not to say, however, that reaching orgasm is not fun, because it is definitely one of the best feelings! Even though some people are incapable of reaching climax with their partner, they can definitely increase their level of "fun" for the whole process.

Do you feel as though your climax or your sexual experience can be kick started a bit? Oh, it can! Any sexual experience or climax can be brought to a new and exciting level with the simple task of breathing. Deep breathing is a huge relaxing exercise for the body, and the way one chooses to breathe during sex influences the outcome of the act. This is a really simple method and all it takes is for you to try out different breathing techniques while making love. Try breathing really fast, slow and deep, or quick and breathy! It is varies from person to person, so breathing technique is something you have to try for yourself.

If you feel as though your orgasm is not exactly what it used to be, don't be afraid to get a little crazy in bed! You know what parts of your body get you the most excited when touched, so why not try different moves that increase the stimulation in these areas? Do something you and your partner have never done before; try a position you have been dying to test out, or make up one of your own! The excitement that comes from trying something new can be exhilarating, and can really increase blood flow, which can make your experience more pleasurable.

On the note of trying something new and getting a little crazy, aural stimulation is something that is very effective. Having a sex scene play in the background is something that numerous couples do. Having the moans and groans coming from another couple on the screen makes your playtime into a sort of game; like you are competing with the other couple to see who will climax first! Also, try using different tones of voice during sex, and even different words. It's a huge turn on for many women to be called beautiful while making love.

The ideal solution to reaching a new high when it comes to climaxing is trying new things and being spontaneous. It is easy to get scared and a bit timid in a situation such as this, but letting loose will make the experience that much more pleasurable.

For more information about sexuality and relationships check out these articles Passionate Kissing and Finger Yourself.

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Why Can't I Make My Girl CLIMAX During Intercourse? It Is One Of The Following Reasons, Guaranteed!

One of the most frustrating experiences for a man is not being able to make his girl climax through intercourse alone. Sure, there are other ways to give a girl an orgasm, such as performing cunnilingus on her or stimulating her clitoris manually. But these are inferior solutions for several reasons. One, you as a guy do not get as much pleasure out of doing these things as you do out of intercourse. It is much more fun to make her climax while doing something that is also immensely enjoyable to YOU. Two, most women report that the orgasms they have from oral sex or manual stimulation are nowhere near as powerful as the ones they have from sexual intercourse. So you won't be as good of a lover in HER eyes if you can't make her climax through intercourse alone.

The problem is that some guys just can't seem to give a girl an orgasm during intercourse no matter what they do. I know, because I used to be one of those guys! The problem was all me, too, because many of the girls I failed to give orgasms freely talked about how other guys were able to make them climax through intercourse alone.

I figured out the reason I couldn't give a girl an orgasm, and I also did a lot of research into the actual science of the female orgasm. What I determined is that if you can't make your girl climax during intercourse, it is because of one or more of the following reasons.

She isn't that turned on by you. Hear me out, now. This doesn't mean she thinks you're ugly or disgusting or that she doesn't love or care about you. Obviously, if those things were true, she wouldn't be having sex with you to begin with! What it means is that you aren't making her LUST for you. You want her to see you as the object of her desires as well as the man she loves and cares about! The best way to get her to lust for you is to take charge sexually, be uninhibited, let HER know how much she turns YOU on. Talk dirty to her! You have to get her to lose herself in her feelings of arousal when she is with you!

Your technique is poor. Do you have sex like a high school kid? You know what I'm talking about. Insert your penis... hump... grunt... hump... grunt... rinse and repeat. That works to get us guys off (pretty much anything does!) but it isn't enough for her! You need to learn to move your hips, read her body language, and do the things that turn her on. Grab a copy of the Kama Sutra if you need an idea of where to start!

You aren't lasting long enough in bed! Even if you are turning her on and you have good technique, most women can't climax in one to two minutes no matter how hot and bothered they are. You have to be able to hold your own orgasm long enough to allow her to get hers. If you are having trouble, it is probably because your pelvic floor is weak. Kegel exercises, where you squeeze and release your pelvic floor as if you were trying to stop your urine flow, are the best way to develop strong and toned PC muscles that will keep you from ejaculating early during sex.

Your penis is too small! Finally, if you are doing all of the above right and she STILL isn't climaxing... it is undoubtedly a size issue. The bottom line is that a small penis doesn't provide enough stimulation or friction to give a girl an orgasm! I know because I used to be only 5.5 inches long and 5 inches around. Once I started increased my penis size (eventually to over 8 inches long and exactly 6 inches around) using penis exercises, I noticed I was FINALLY able to give women orgasms just by thrusting!

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