If there was one proverbial question that men often ask about pleasing women, it would be how to perform cunnilingus successfully and explosively. Over and over again, this question has been raised and while to a very few enlightened there is nothing to it, to most it continues to baffle them the same way the question of how to lose weight or how to date a girl does. Here are a few simple tips that you can consider guaranteed to make your woman go absolutely gaga in bed.
If this is your first time to go down on your partner and you are apprehensive about possible odour and other misguided notions about oral sex, then it might be best if you ensure that she just got out of the shower before you literally take the dive. Also, make sure that she is completely comfortable with the idea because while most women love it when men go down on them, there are still a few who are not at all open to the idea of anyone getting that close to their most private part.
Now that you have set the mood for the evening, the next thing you have to learn is how to start with the foreplay. For most, cunnilingus is already a form of foreplay but taking the time kiss her on the lips, suck her nipples and nibble on her hips before actually going down on the clitoris is an excellent way of preparing her as well as yourself. Remember the golden rule: any kind of licking, sucking and massaging with the tongue and the lips should make your partner go crazy especially when done with the right pressure and the right speed. At no uncertain terms are you supposed to let your teeth get in contact with any part of her vagina and her clitoris. These parts are highly sensitive and as such will not stand biting, nibbling or worst, chewing.
Start with the soft folds found at the outer part of the vagina. Gently flick your tongue over the skin and slowly run it through the surface using circular motion. For the first few minutes, try and avoid the clitoris, you will want to save this for last. Knowing how to perform cunnilingus is just basically knowing how to pay attention to your partner's responses so be sure to listen for her moans of pleasure to get clues as to speeding it up or slowing it down.
After the labia, there's also the opening of the vagina itself as well as the surfaces surrounding it. Most of a woman's nerve endings are centred here so go ahead and run your tongue through the sides of the opening while inserting a finger or two inside. Make sure that she is sufficiently wet before you do any inserting otherwise she might just ask you to stop and there goes the rest of the evening for you.
Last but not the least is the ever mysterious and elusive clitoris located just inside the soft folds that you just had so much fun playing with. Now this here is a touchy spot, too much or too little pressure can drive the women folks bonkers so it is important to keep an eye out on how you are licking and sucking is affecting her. Start with your tongue and if she seems to like it, close your lips over the clitoris to increase the pressure. While sucking, continually flick your tongue over the centre of the clitoris, gradually increasing speed until your partner moans her agreement about you definitely knowing how to perform cunnilingus.
For more information, read these articles on how to give a girl head and on a guide to cunnilingus.
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