2011/07/03

The Kind Of Sex All Couples Need

There is the kinky sex like role-playing and BDSM that are very exciting but may not work for all couple and there are the must-tries that are also very exciting but not too far out from your usual routine that it'll work for all kinds of couples.

Here are the top 2 must have sex that all couples need to try. The first is the risky quickie which discusses how to enjoy a fast one. The second is slow but wild sex that goes into detail on long and sensual sex.

The Risky Quickie

All couples have done a quickie at least once in the course of their relationship (at least we hope you have!). A quickie is a great way to show how much you lust for each other; your passion is on fire that it can no longer be contained, not bothering to fully undress, you just take his penis out of his pants and slip your panties to the side and in less than 5 minutes you are left weak-kneed, flushed and naturally high. This kind of sex is like a shooting star; it's amazing and memorable but over before you know it.

A quickie is usually achieved after a slow burn of flirting and restrained lust; you know what the best quickie is? In a place where you're not supposed to be having sex, such as your parents' house or your office building among many others. Doing it inside the office is very, very risky so we suggest you do it in the basement or parking lot, outside your office but still technically in place where the risk of getting caught will add to the excitement. If you don't want to take the risk, do it in your parent's house, a friend's house or a relative's house, if you can do it outside the bedroom that will really add to the excitement.

Make sure you wear thongs for easy access and some lube will be really handy. Also, try not to make a single sound.

Slow but Wild Sex

Long and sensual foreplay allows the two of you to really get to know each other. You can start off by giving him a little show of how you want to be handled; watching a woman pleasure herself is usually on a man's top 5 must-sees. Control should be give and take, meaning you take control half of the time and he is in control also half of the time. If you want him to do something else, let him know by leading him to it and/or showing him how. Let the animal in you take free reign, let go of inhibitions and do not be shy to scream and shout, moan and writhe. Scratch him and bit him, let him pull your hair and slap your butt. This is the kind of sex that wakes the neighbors and may potentially break the bed. It's wild, rough and hard but also sensual, passionate and takes time.

However, do not do this when you have your kids or parents in the house. We all know how emotionally traumatic that is.

Couples should always be working on techniques and methods to keep sex exciting and fresh. The same old bedroom expectations will lead to the same old sex. Be creative and learn the techniques that will truly turn on your partner. The amazing thing about being creative in the sack is there is literally endless possibilities for what can be tried and tested. Whether you want to introduce bondage or toys into the equation or even a third party, exploration can be exciting and spice up your love life and relationship.

For more articles about sexuality and relationships check out Clitoris Massage and How To Finger Yourself


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