How To Introduce Your Lover to Swinging

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Three Key Steps to Getting Your Partner Interested in Swinging

Swinging - when done the right way - can not only be great fun; it can also bring a couple much closer together in the intimacy of their relationship. This may seem counterintuitive but it is a clue on how to get your partner interested in swinging. It is also the reason why most people have little success in getting a partner interested who is reluctant to try it.

The first step is to realize that successful swinging is all about the two of YOU and your relationship. It is not to fill in any gaps in your sex life. In fact, swinging makes a great sex life even better; it does not make a bad sex life good. So if you are going to try to introduce your partner to swinging you should concentrate on improving the sex life between the two of you first.

This leads us to the second step, which is to really focus on your partner. Your goal here is to make them feel loved and adored, that they are the sexiest person in the world to you. You would never do anything to hurt them intentionally and they are certainly the best lover you could possibly ever imagine having. Some people find this difficult, especially if they have been in their relationship for some time. You may feel your attraction has waned for your partner. You might think your sex life has become boring, which is why you want to add some variety by swinging anyway. You need to turn this around. Try new things. Even do some of the things you used to do when you first got together. Anything becomes stale if no effort is put into it, and your sex life is just the same.

The third step is simply to keep reinforcing you attraction for your partner and building the trust between you. The more trust you can create by making your partner feel safe to be themselves and express themselves fully, the more they will know that your desire for more sexual adventure is not about 'replacing' them with someone else.

Many couples feel that getting involved with swinging will cause problems in their relationship such as jealousy. However, if you follow the above steps you will find that these problems just don't arise. However, it is very important to keep the relationship between you as the most important thing; you just happen to involve other people from time to time to experience things you can't do with just the two of you.

If you would like to become a swinger and your partner isn't interested you will find the above steps a powerful way to start.

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How To Meet The Right Couple For Swinging

Would you like to try the swinging lifestyle? Once you have made the decision to give it a try, the biggest hurdle to overcome is to find another suitable couple to play with. Fortunately you can benefit from the experience of others by knowing the best way to find other people. Here are some ideas to help you.

Firstly, be aware it can be a lengthy process. You may end up chatting with a large number of couples before you find one you really click with. This is hardly surprising; it is difficult enough to find two people who are attracted to each other, but to find four who all share some chemistry can seem nigh-on impossible.

You will meet couples who may be interested in you but who for whatever reason you don't feel particularly attracted to. Don't be concerned about this - it really does go with the territory.

Also, do not despair or be in a rush to start playing once you decide you and your partner would like to be swingers. Many people decide to play with the first people who come along and find that the experience is not really very pleasurable. In fact it can be a disaster.

All this said, what is the best way to meet another couple for swinging. There are in fact three ways.

The first way is to consider people you already know. You may think your friends would not be interested in swinging, but swinging is surprisingly widespread. Do not discount your friends! Think about who you already know who you find attractive. Invite them for dinner and drop a few subtle hints. Lead the conversation in a sexual direction and see their reaction. Of course if you get a negative reaction you know to back off as you don't want to destroy your friendship.

The second way and probably the most widespread is to meet couples through an online swingers website. There are a number of good ones which have large numbers of couples (and singles) who are swingers and are looking to meet other likeminded people. You can get a very good idea about them from the information they post online, including their interests and physical characteristics. Usually they will (or should) put up some photographs so you can get a better idea of their body shape and sizes.

To do this you should also put up your own details by creating a profile. This will allow other couples to contact you if they are interested. The first step will be to have some brief message exchange to see if there is some connection. If it all looks promising, you should try to meet as soon as possible. This should only be for the purposes of checking each other out. Unless you are not fussy at all you will find this an essential step as despite all the online conversation in the world you will not know if you all click until you meet each other.

The third way you can meet other swingers is to go to a swingers party. Getting invited to these can be quite tricky. However, swingers websites often list parties. Choose one in your area and put your name down as being interested. If you go to a swingers party remember the golden rule amongst all swingers is "no means no". You will not be pressured into doing anything you don't want to, and no one will mind if you decline an invitation to play. Swingers parties are a very good way to meet a number of couples all at once to see if you feel a special connection with any of them.

Meeting another couple to swing with can be a bit tricky. However it is worth the effort because when you find the right couple you will definitely have a lot of fun.

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