When it comes to making love most people are concerned or fear that they are doing it incorrectly. This is because they feel as though their climax is never reached, or they feel unsatisfied upon finishing. It is important to keep in mind that reaching climax is not the ultimate goal of sex; it is having fun throughout the entire process. This is not to say, however, that reaching orgasm is not fun, because it is definitely one of the best feelings! Even though some people are incapable of reaching climax with their partner, they can definitely increase their level of "fun" for the whole process.
Do you feel as though your climax or your sexual experience can be kick started a bit? Oh, it can! Any sexual experience or climax can be brought to a new and exciting level with the simple task of breathing. Deep breathing is a huge relaxing exercise for the body, and the way one chooses to breathe during sex influences the outcome of the act. This is a really simple method and all it takes is for you to try out different breathing techniques while making love. Try breathing really fast, slow and deep, or quick and breathy! It is varies from person to person, so breathing technique is something you have to try for yourself.
If you feel as though your orgasm is not exactly what it used to be, don't be afraid to get a little crazy in bed! You know what parts of your body get you the most excited when touched, so why not try different moves that increase the stimulation in these areas? Do something you and your partner have never done before; try a position you have been dying to test out, or make up one of your own! The excitement that comes from trying something new can be exhilarating, and can really increase blood flow, which can make your experience more pleasurable.
On the note of trying something new and getting a little crazy, aural stimulation is something that is very effective. Having a sex scene play in the background is something that numerous couples do. Having the moans and groans coming from another couple on the screen makes your playtime into a sort of game; like you are competing with the other couple to see who will climax first! Also, try using different tones of voice during sex, and even different words. It's a huge turn on for many women to be called beautiful while making love.
The ideal solution to reaching a new high when it comes to climaxing is trying new things and being spontaneous. It is easy to get scared and a bit timid in a situation such as this, but letting loose will make the experience that much more pleasurable.
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