Blindfold sex is one of the simplest ways to spice up your sex life. It is so simple that even the shyest individual can try this out without fearing silly or uncomfortable. In fact, playing with a blindfold during sex is one of the best ways for shy couples to introduce kinkiness in the bedroom.
First off, get your blindfolds ready, you can use a scarf, a tie, a handkerchief or almost any piece of garment that'll cover your eyes.
Here are some tips on how to start off incorporating the use of blindfolds during sex.
1. Set the mood. Play some nice music so the two of you can relax. Slow dancing helps to to start the intimacy.
2. Start with a game to warm things up. Blindfold each other while feeding each other desert. Since both of you are blind, you will rely on your other senses to help you out with the task. Focus on your sense of touch and use your finger to feel where her mouth is, where the ice cream bowl is and such. Be playful and spontaneous. Do not be afraid to put ice cream on other parts of her body.
3. With the blindfold still on, try to clean each other off. Use your fingers and tongues to find where the two of daubed ice cream on each other. Feel each other's faces and body and clean each other off. This will inevitably lead to making out.
4. With the blindfold still one, lead each other towards the bedroom or if you want to continue whatever you are doing in that same place, do not hesitate to do so.
5. Undress each other slowly and don't be afraid to lose your inhibitions. Imagine having phone sex... you can narrate what you are about to do and what you are already doing in a very graphic manner. Do not be shy as your partner cannot see you. Let all you other senses take over the moment.
6. With the two of you blindfolded, you will get to enjoy finding each other's body parts making the experience more tension building and erotic.
Couples who have tried playing with blindfolds say that it actually helps in letting out the inner tiger in anyone. If your partner is not a moaner, expect her to be more vocal and confident with her moans and shouts since she is free to escape to a land where self-consciousness does not exist.
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