How To Improve Sex With The Same Guy

Speaking from personal experience, it's difficult to maintain the flame when the sex is monotonous and the relationship has a few years behind it. It's easy to begin thinking of "alternatives" to your sexual woes, perhaps with a new partner or a slew of solo sex toys, but don't stray quite yet! There is hope for you and your long-time love! Re-establishing the passionate sex life you had before the stress of everyday life is completely possible if you know where to begin. First, before you ponder about your same ole' sexual problems, rethink your position in the bedroom. Are you willing to go the extra mile and do anything to spice up your love life, or do your problems delve deeper than the bedroom? If you've answered yes to the second question, you may want to seek help from another source. While if you're interested in putting the zest back into your intimate time and living a happier sexual existence, this article is for you! So, how do you do it?

Discover what's missing from your sex life and change it! If your problem is the same position every time, do your research and kick things up a notch. Most men and women are naturally adventurous when it comes to sex, especially if this person has stuck around long enough for the sex to become monotonous. It can be something you talk about with your partner over a fully illustrated edition of the Kama Sutra, or it can be a complete surprise the next time you're getting frisky in the bedroom. Just going from missionary to doggy-style can do wonders for your pleasure and the pleasure of your companion. Don't get stuck on the same positions for too long because that can mean your body will get used to the stimulation; meaning less intense orgasms and erotic sensation for you and your partner. Every position offers new stimulation, so trying something a little different could mean discovering new favorites to add to your sexual repertoire.

Another common issue is placement and timing. Are you always in the bedroom when you have sex? Is it always at night before bed or early in the morning before work? Quickies are fun but they're meant to be an occasional thing! Love-making should be long, luxurious, and pleasing for all parties involved; so take the initiative to be enticing and spontaneous. Is your guy taking a shower? Step in behind him and suds up, being extra seductive and attentive to his erogenous zones. Is your man stressing over work? A massage can do wonders and if you're accurate enough to hit his pleasure points; it could lead to the best sex you've had in a long time! The element of surprise and spontaneity can be a magical and improving factor in a relationship that's gone sour in the sexual bliss department.

While some couples are different, the fact remains the same on one verdict: Most couples who consider their sex lives boring are the same couples who need to be more intimate together all the time, not just in the bedroom. If you're constantly cuddling, kissing, and touching in some way throughout the day, it's easier to have a more active and uninhibited sex life. A little physical or emotional love during the day can lead to stronger amorous feelings and desire when it comes to getting freaky between the sheets. The stress of everyday life is always going to be there, while time with your partner (inside and outside of the bedroom) is precious and should be cherished. If someone feels protected and loved, they're more apt to feel sexually content later on.

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How to Make a Girl Climax Perfectly

As much we are now living in an era where people are more open to sharing information regarding sex, there are still many men out there who have no idea how to make a girl achieve climax. Of course most would not admit this for fear of being ridiculed. Girls on the other hand won't admit publicly to not having experience orgasm for fear that they might be labeled as unusual. Most girls also don't have the guts to tell their partners outright what will make them achieve orgasm either because they don't know it themselves or just too shy about it. This is especially true for those who are not yet sexually attune with their selves. Thus, they end up faking orgasms just to please their partners.

What could be more daunting for a man to know that his girl was just faking her climax? Could this be attributed to failure on the part of the man to satisfy his partner? Well, yes. In order for a girl to climax, her man should know how to give her the correct loving to make her orgasm. That is why there is a need for these men to know a little about the sexuality of women. Knowing a female's basic anatomy will come very handy when it comes to sexual gratification. If you know how a particular body part of a woman behaves and responds to your touch or kiss or caress, then you can add this information to your arsenal of data as you go into the actual lovemaking scenario.

No two women are alike therefore men should vary their techniques depending on what best suits their women. However here are some solid tips which would help any man make a girl achieve orgasm, no matter what techniques to employ.

First of all, you have to make a girl comfortable and well-settled before you even begin foreplay. A relaxed and comfy girl will not be difficult to stimulate. Whereas, an agitated and tense girl would probably take hours of foreplay before she will even begin to melt down in your arms. If you don't know what makes your girl hot and you are time-constrain to test every technique you know on her, better ask her outright. Asking a girl what turns her on, or does she want you to do something particular to boost her libido is a manly thing to do. Unlike what others believe, asking her is actually very considerate and kind of sexy when done appropriately. It shows that her satisfaction is uppermost in his mind.

Putting on a musky scent would also be a great aid towards increasing a girl's sexual desire. Smell plays a powerful role in sexual context and can trigger lasting and unforgettable memories. Musky scents are very male in its essence and would actually boost up her libido. It would also trigger some sensor in her brain that will remind her of your last sexual encounter and what it feels then.

Keeping your woman's feet warm will also definitely aid her to achieve climax. This has been proven by Dutch Scientists who conducted research on the connection between having cold feet and orgasm. Thus keeping her feet warm by wearing socks, or giving her a foot massage with a warm gel before the act or sporting stiletto heels is a must. If you want her to reach orgasm, you must not fail to massage and stimulate her erogenous zones. These would include her neck, the small of her back, breasts, thighs, buttocks and of course her clitoris.

Going down on your girl would be the best way to make her climax. After you have stimulated her sensitive spots, turning your attention on her triangle area between her legs would boost her sexual anticipation. Multi-task and be versatile when performing cunnilingus on her. This means using your mouth, tongue and hands in making love to her down there. You can stimulate her G-spot using your hands while you suck on her clitoris and labia. Alternately sucking and flicking your tongue over her clitoris can produce sexual jolts that would definitely up the notch higher towards orgasm. You can also stimulate the insides of her vagina with your tongue. Use it like a penis and thrust it into her in the same rhythm and pace as you would during intercourse. Since it's more pliable than a penis, it can reach territories inside the vagina that a male's sexual organ could never explore. As an added sensation, you can even insert your finger in her anus as she is about to orgasm. Of course, you should not force this on her if she does not like it. You would know soon enough if she's into this or not by the way she reacts to your gesture.

For more information, read these articles on how to make a girl cum and on how to use a vibrator.

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Sex and Power

According to a recent study by a group of investigators from the Universities of Tilburg and Groningen, power is a stronger predictor of infidelity than gender. They found the incidence of infidelity to be relatively equal among men and women in similarly-powered positions. The reason we hear more about men committing sex scandals is there are many more men in powerful positions than women.

Studies indicate that celebrities are no more likely to have affairs than the average person. But they live in a world that commonly presents opportunities for casual sex, making it easier and less risky and sometimes, even enabled. Robert Weiss, LCSW, CSAT, Director of Clinical Programming at Life Healing Center in Santa Fe says that public figures feed off the constant attention and validation from others. On the other hand, Ronald F. Levant, a psychologist at the University of Akron says that power facilitates bad behavior; it doesn't cause it.

In addition, powerful people often receive little to no honest feedback. Most everyone in their circle is dependent on them for something. This results in making them less likely to receive truthful analysis or criticism. They're often protected from suffering the consequences of their transgressions, which causes them to feel invincible. Thus, they never learn from their mistakes.

Sometimes, the feeling of invincibility leads directly to powerful people thinking they'll never get caught. Their feelings of strength and fearlessness coupled with not suffering consequences often creates great, powerful leaders, but problems may arise when these leaders no longer see themselves as human.

Successful, powerful people, namely politicians, celebrities and sports stars, usually need to take more risks than the average citizen. The qualities that make them good at what they do, including confidence, charm and charisma, and high risk-taking personalities, also increase their likelihood for infidelity. Often, instead of caring for themselves by slowing down and attending to their emotional needs, powerful people may become maladjusted and engage in temporary, superficially satisfying practices as a means for entertainment, stimulation or stress release. The less their emotional needs are being met, the more prone they are to look for immediate, but largely empty, comfort to feel good. They may not even realize, or acknowledge, that anything is missing from their lives. This could lead to feelings of emptiness. Then, their feelings of entitlement and invincibility can lead to poor decisions and over-indulgence.

Regrettably, celebrities resist seeking treatment for sexual or relationship problems due to societal stigmas and/or publicity damage. This is, in part, an unfortunate result of today's information age. However, untreated sex-related disorders, whether physical or psychological, could eventually lead to serious consequences: broken relationships, arrest and disease, and even destruction of careers and financial ruin, and should not be ignored or minimized. Sometimes even a heartfelt apology at a well-time press conference won't do.

Nancy Travers, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, specializes in all types of relationships; dating, existing relationships, family relationships, and relationships with friends and business relationships. She also helps her clients overcome anxiety and depression through talk therapy as well as through hypnosis. What sets her apart from many other counselors is that she has counseled in the gay/lesbian community for over 10 years. She also has experience counseling families with elder care issues. Nancy has been in practice for over 15 years and can provide you with the tools you need to approach dating and relationships with confidence. Visit her website at http://www.nancyscounselingcorner.com/.

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China detains 52 in fake drug, Viagra crackdown (Reuters)

BEIJING (Reuters) – Police in China have detained 52 people in a crackdown on fake drugs, including the anti-impotence pill Viagra, seizing pills for other illicit aphrodisiacs and pornographic pictures in the process, state media said on Tuesday.

The police operation centered on the teeming southern metropolis of Guangzhou also netted thousands of fake pills and packaging, busting a ring that sold to both the domestic and overseas market, the official Xinhua news agency said.

It named another fake drug seized as "man coffee," without giving details.

Police also confiscated almost one million pornographic pictures used for packaging and shut down the printing press, Xinhua added.

China's food and drug sector has been beset by a series of poisonings and toxin scandals that have shaken consumer confidence. Numerous government crackdowns have apparently had little effect.

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