Men are very visual so you can count on a hot striptease to get him wild for you. Before you start teasing him with your moves, make sure that you prepare everything first. It will ruin the moment if you would have to pause and go searching for your props or if you had to ask him to wait while you prepare everything. So that the show is smooth and spontaneous, get everything ready; from the lighting (try using candles), music, your clothes (you must be already dressed for the show to the props that you will be using.
The point of striptease is to tease him, so don't bare everything right away. Here are step by step tips on how to start your striptease, assuming that you have are already decided that you are comfortable enough to do an intimate show for your partner.
De-clutter your space
Start by making you "stage" (usually it'll be your bedroom) presentable and appealing. You will never see clutter in strip clubs. Put away your clothes, books, CDs, shoes or anything else that takes away from the aesthetic of your stage.
Set the atmosphere
You would need flattering lighting. Yellow light or dim lights are great options. Notice how most people always look different-better in bars/clubs? It's the dim lights. Get some dim lights or what you can do is cover your white lights with red cellophane. It'll give you that strip club atmosphere. Light some scented candles to add drama.
Ready your props
Wear sexy lingerie. If you don't already have one, you should purchase a set NOW. Sexy lingerie is must-have in any girl's closet. Start a collection if you can. Wear sexy stilettos (the higher the better) and stockings with garters that attach to your underwear. Your lingerie shouldn't be thongs as these reveal too much. The point of the strip tease is mystery. You can wear lacy boyleg underwear with thongs underneath so it adds another layer to remove. Wear a sexy easy-to-remove outfit on top of your sexy lingerie. Remember that removal of this layer needs to be accomplished smoothly and without any fuss.
A Tie or a scarf, a straight back chair and a fedora hat are additional props that you should consider.
Sexy Music
Choose sensual music that you feel comfortable dancing in. Make a playlist so you do not run out of tunes.
Start the show
When doing your striptease, make sure that you are confident and keep telling yourself how foxy you are. The sexier you feel, the sexier your show will be; some find it a big help to have touch of alcohol in their system to calm their nerves. But do not get drunk or else you striptease will be sloppy.
Maintain eye contact and a come hither look at all times. Touch yourself, bite your lips, fondle your breasts and mess your hair. Make the most out of your body and tease him by touching yourself, bending over to show him your goods, put him in between your breasts but don't let him freely touch you... yet. Playfully spank him when he tries to touch you; he can only do so after you finish your show. Every time you remove an item of clothing, throw it at him. Remove your underwear bottoms last.
Moves in a striptease dance need not be complicated; it is mostly about the hips and butt. It is slow and sensual, smooth, circular and there is lots of posing involved.
For more details on how to actually perform, you can watch striptease tutorials online or you can even enroll in a striptease class at your local gym.
Looking for more articles about sexuality and relationships check out Clitoris Massage and How Do You Finger Yourself
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