Great Ways to Tease Him

Looking for ways to excite your man? It is easy when you have the right tools. Some people think that in order to really excite your lover is to by cheap, sexy lingerie and wear high heels and lipstick, but you honestly do not need all of this. Most men love the fact that their girl does not need any extra gadgets to enhance her beauty and get him off; they love to think that all their girl needs to get him horny is herself.

Men are extremely sensitive in many areas including: the back, the neck, the stomach and inner thighs. It is highly important to know where your man's super secret sensitive areas are, because you can definitely use this to tease him. When you are in the mood, lightly stroke the back of his neck, and work your fingertips around his body, being sure to hit those sensitive areas. A major turn on that works hand in hand with this fingertip method is using your lips and mouth to get the job done.

Once you feel you have done enough work with your fingers, turn to using your lips. Kiss him gently on the lips, work your way down his neck and stomach, and if you want to get a little crazy, try to unzip his bottoms with your teeth and mouth. This will definitely make him think that you are about to go down on him, but do not give him what he wants just yet! Be sure to leave his pants unzipped for a few moments, and then tell him that it is his turn.

Have him unbutton, or take off your blouse, and surprise him; do not have a bra on underneath. Take his hands off of you, and undo his pants even further, being sure to take his member out. Lightly play with him, and use your breasts to caress him. This will blow his mind! Now comes the even better part; licking!

With his friend stiff and ready to go, stop working with your breasts and go back to using your mouth. Work with the tip of his penis using only your lips, and then begin to slowly lick the sides of him. The cold air hitting his member will shock him, but the wetness from your mouth will keep him hard. Place him fully in your mouth, but only once, being sure to fully lubricate him. Then, it's his turn to tease you! Have fun, and happy teasing!

Teasing may seem a bit mean at times, especially because it drives men crazy when they expect sex and are not instantly gratified with it. You should try not to approach using the tease to get your man aroused just to cut the night short and give him blue balls. The tease should really be used with the intent on eventually having sex and enjoying and extending foreplay and love making.

"Blue Balls" can be an uncomfortable and potentially painful experience for a man. As all of the pressure builds up to eventually explode in orgasm which does not occur, the body reacts slowly to alleviate the pressure causing what feels like cramping in the lower abdominal and testicle areas.

It is all about the right amount of teasing to get your man off. If you can build the pressure to the point of orgasm then slow the activities and a couple minutes later bring him back to that point, his orgasm will be that much more intense and enjoyable. What I am getting at is balance is important. Give your man the right amount, but not too much teasing to optimize the sexual experience for both him and you.

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3 Ways to Tease Her and Drive Her Crazy

One of the marks of a great lover is how well they entice. How well you create anticipation can influence the strength and duration of her orgasms. For powerful orgasms through oral sex, teasing is vital. Orgasm is practically guaranteed if you can tease her masterfully before you even touch her vulva and clitoris.

It is fairly common knowledge that women loved to be teased and the longer you tease her, the more intense her orgasms will be. The tips below will show you how to build anticipation that will drive her crazy. The things to keep in mind while teasing her are: go slow, pay attention to her responses, and move from slow to fast.

Dual Stimulation

While kissing her, rub her back slowly at first and increase the firmness as the kissing becomes more intense. Press her into you. After kissing for a while, slowly lift her shirt and caress her lower back in a circular motion; alternate between kissing her lips, neck, and the area where her jaw meets her neck while doing this. The aim is stimulate two erogenous zones at once. This works especially well during oral sex because all erogenous zones seem to amplify the pleasure she feels from her clitoris.

Massage the nape of her neck and then begin to kiss her breasts and nipples while you pin her arms above her head with your free hand. Alternate between soft kissing and hard passionate kissing; this contrast is what arouses women. Apply the principle of contrast when you are stimulating two spots simultaneously. Create a contrast stimulation pattern. For example, stimulate one spot slowly and the other one fast. Then, rub them at the same speed simultaneously. Finally, stimulate the spot you were rubbing with its opposite speed.

Talk Dirty to Her While Teasing Her

Use dirty talk to describe what you are going to do to her, and then actually do it. Give her commands or get her to repeat certain phrases by telling her to "say it" or "tell me." Whisper the dirty talk in her ear with a dominant tone of voice while either thrusting very hard. Women also love the contrast of rough dirty talk and slow sensual thrusting.

During foreplay, use dirty talk while stimulating her breasts and tell her to imagine that her breasts are her clitoris. Then slowly and very lightly brush over her vulva with your other hand. Dirty talk is an excellent way to immerse her mentally in the sexual experience. Arouse and make love to her mind first and her body enthusiastically follows.

When she is close to having an orgasm, tell her "not yet" and ask her how bad she wants the orgasm.

Sweet and Slow Torture Thrusts

Place the head of your penis on her vaginal opening, and give her very small thrusts and then pull out. Each time, give her a bit more than the last until you are fully inside. Once you are fully inside, don't thrust, but press your pelvis into hers with the same rhythm and pace as CPR. Tease her to the point of frustration, until she is almost angry then bring her to the brink of orgasm and stop.

Whisper dirty things in her ear as you thrust into her, describe how she feels to you and tell her how naughty she is.

Bring her to the edge once more before asking her how badly she wants to come for you. Tell her to cum as you vigorously (or use a feather-light stroke) but carefully stroke her into one of the best orgasms she will experience.

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