Great Ways to Tease Him

Looking for ways to excite your man? It is easy when you have the right tools. Some people think that in order to really excite your lover is to by cheap, sexy lingerie and wear high heels and lipstick, but you honestly do not need all of this. Most men love the fact that their girl does not need any extra gadgets to enhance her beauty and get him off; they love to think that all their girl needs to get him horny is herself.

Men are extremely sensitive in many areas including: the back, the neck, the stomach and inner thighs. It is highly important to know where your man's super secret sensitive areas are, because you can definitely use this to tease him. When you are in the mood, lightly stroke the back of his neck, and work your fingertips around his body, being sure to hit those sensitive areas. A major turn on that works hand in hand with this fingertip method is using your lips and mouth to get the job done.

Once you feel you have done enough work with your fingers, turn to using your lips. Kiss him gently on the lips, work your way down his neck and stomach, and if you want to get a little crazy, try to unzip his bottoms with your teeth and mouth. This will definitely make him think that you are about to go down on him, but do not give him what he wants just yet! Be sure to leave his pants unzipped for a few moments, and then tell him that it is his turn.

Have him unbutton, or take off your blouse, and surprise him; do not have a bra on underneath. Take his hands off of you, and undo his pants even further, being sure to take his member out. Lightly play with him, and use your breasts to caress him. This will blow his mind! Now comes the even better part; licking!

With his friend stiff and ready to go, stop working with your breasts and go back to using your mouth. Work with the tip of his penis using only your lips, and then begin to slowly lick the sides of him. The cold air hitting his member will shock him, but the wetness from your mouth will keep him hard. Place him fully in your mouth, but only once, being sure to fully lubricate him. Then, it's his turn to tease you! Have fun, and happy teasing!

Teasing may seem a bit mean at times, especially because it drives men crazy when they expect sex and are not instantly gratified with it. You should try not to approach using the tease to get your man aroused just to cut the night short and give him blue balls. The tease should really be used with the intent on eventually having sex and enjoying and extending foreplay and love making.

"Blue Balls" can be an uncomfortable and potentially painful experience for a man. As all of the pressure builds up to eventually explode in orgasm which does not occur, the body reacts slowly to alleviate the pressure causing what feels like cramping in the lower abdominal and testicle areas.

It is all about the right amount of teasing to get your man off. If you can build the pressure to the point of orgasm then slow the activities and a couple minutes later bring him back to that point, his orgasm will be that much more intense and enjoyable. What I am getting at is balance is important. Give your man the right amount, but not too much teasing to optimize the sexual experience for both him and you.

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2 Secrets to Being a Great Kisser

Being a great kisser can enhance your sex life beyond imagination. Imagine being able to give women orgasms from the way you kiss, or to have her so aroused that she orgasms with a few strokes of her clitoris or as soon as you begin intercourse.

Kissing alone can have a woman aroused in minutes and nearly ready for sex without any foreplay. It is also an excellent way to build sexual tension partially because of the variety of ways it can be leveraged and the heightened mental aspects.

Kissing serves as a proxy to your sexual skills. Women judge a man by how good his kisses are, very rare is a man who kisses horribly and then proceeds to blow a woman's mind in the bedroom. The way you kiss is proxy to sexual skills because the same principles that make a great kisser also make a great lover. Paying attention to her and calibrating, communicating with your body, conveying passion, and creating a strong emotion connection are all characteristics of a great kisser and a great lover.

Secret #1

Realize that kissing is an exchange of emotion and a form of communication, not simply mechanical lip action to turn her on. Let that mentally marinade and then go kiss your lover with it in mind. Begin by teasing her with a few "almost kisses." Women intuitively understand the language of kissing and teasing says all the right things.

Secret #2: Listen to Her Lips

The second secret to kissing is to begin with mimicking how she kisses you and then transition into your kissing style. As your faces draw near each other, touch her lips as lightly as possible and allow her to lead the kiss at first in order to sense the following:

1. The amount of pressure she is applying

2. How are her lips pressed against yours (i.e. wide, slightly parted, etc.)

3. The intensity of her kissing

4. Her lip and/or tongue rhythm

Don't focus on kissing her just yet, focus on how she kisses you and echo that back to her for now. She has a model of how a perfect kiss is supposed to be and you are exploring that model by demonstrating with your lips that you are listening to and understanding her. After following her, begin to take the lead but continue to pay attention to how she responds to the changes you make.

Take the lead by breaking the kiss and slowly begin again but suddenly increase the intensity. If she begins to follow your kissing style, you can be sure that she feels or desires to feel a strong sense of connection with you.

Kiss with your entire body; want nothing more than the kiss in that moment. Enjoy the sensation of her lips on yours and always be sure you are synchronized in your kissing.

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Benefits of Giving Her Great Sex

It would seem that this topic does not even need discussion, but statistics I have looked at recently say otherwise. Why would you want to give her wild, orgasmic, white-hot sex? A better question would be why not? The following tenets will motivate you to improve your sex life no matter if you have been consciously or unconsciously ignoring it. This article is mainly directed towards those who are oblivious to their female lover's actual sexual satisfaction.

Drastically Reduces the Chance of Her Cheating On You

If she is experiencing great sex with plenty of orgasms, variety, and emotion then there is little reason for her to look elsewhere for gratification. Her sexual needs are most likely met. Become her best lover and know that she will never forget you. Great sex causes us to turn a blind eye to bad issues in the relationship for a while. If on the rare chance that you separate, know that she will crave you. It's hard to forget someone who can completely satisfy you sexually because they know your body better than you and constantly give you different types of orgasms.

She Will Crave Sex More Often

The simplest way to make her want sex more often is to give her great sex. Rare is the human being who only wants a great thing once. Improving your sexual knowledge and skills will cause her to desire more of these mind-blowing sexual experiences with you once she knows that you can give them to her.

Great sex doesn't simply mean having sex in new positions, new location, or toys. It means giving her a variety of strong emotional experiences. Strong emotional experiences can drastically enhance any new positions, toys, or locations you try out. Dirty talk can be a great way to elicit strong emotions and arousal.

She Will Be More Open to Experimenting With New Things

Think about it, if she knows that you safely give her mind-blowing experiences, when you mention something new she will trust you. She will even begin to bring up new experiences she would like to have.

Having a woman's sexual trust is the result of safely and pleasurably giving her new sexual experiences. Giving her different types of orgasms, mastering the tease, and learning vulva/vaginal massage are all things that implicitly let a woman know that she can trust you with her sexuality. She will feel your nonjudgmental attitude towards her sexuality and begin to open up and share fantasies and turn-ons that you never knew she had.

Learning how to please a woman sexually is one of the greatest things you can do to improve how you relate to women. Sexual confidence is something that all women notice and are attracted to.

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Great Dates That Will Lead To The Bedroom

A woman decides if she's going to have sex with you within the first few minutes of a date so it's important to make sure the date is appealing to her interests. Don't get me wrong, men need something appealing too on dates; but a genuinely interested man will worry more about the woman he's with rather than his interest level in a date activity. Finding something your date can be passionate about is a great start! Some people are the typical movies, popcorn, and cuddling types who will gladly follow you back to your apartment after a in-the-dark kisses. While others need more caress and time to decide if you're bedroom material; this means uniqueness, imagination, and creativity may be the key to ensuring your night ends with a bang; instead of a fizzle!

-- If your babe is a partier, then get into the party scene. A little alcohol will loosen everybody up and make lust fulfillment a bigger possibility. Plus, if your date sees you interacting well with others while keeping your interests in her, she'll be head over heels and ready to make the commitment for a late-night tryst. We're not talking full-on college keggers, but a nice casual party with friends or a local costume/wine-tasting party advertised in a newspaper could be your ticket to bedroom success. Remember to be thoughtful and attentive throughout the night. Flirtation and teasing is far more seductive on a date than just being flat-out perverse.

-- Think your place! Or an extremely nice, very upscale hotel room if you have a roommate. The location usually implies the intention but having a romantic evening isn't all about sex, even if that's one of your goals for the night. Cook a nice, healthy dinner for your date. That's right. Cook! No eating out or ordering in. When you prepare a meal, it shows you're taking the time to make a lasting impression. We give you permission to order amazing room service though if you've opted for the hotel idea. For dessert, try a bottle of champagne and chocolate fondue with strawberries. It's a sensuous way to wrap up the eating portion of your evening while having personal conversations that could lead to intimate physical contact. Chocolate is a natural aphrodisiac which means you'll both be in a loving mood before too long.

-- Hit the dance floor! This is a classic date that will get almost anybody lucky. Women crave seduction so slow dances are ideal for the mood, although the club scene works well with daters who are into the usual bump and grind. Your bodies are pressed tightly together, staring into each other's eyes or nuzzling necks, you're swaying and before you know it, your bodies have responded to each other in a very sexual way. A woman can tell how you'll make love by the way your body moves against hers. She wants fluid motions and rhythm, not mad-dog humping brutality! After dancing, invite her back to your place for a night cap and before long, you'll be doing the horizontal mambo!

If you're interested in sex with your date, then it's crucial to get to know them first. The third or fourth date is when you should probably start implementing your bedroom savvy techniques. A one night stand will only get you an angry date who hoped for more, unless both of you are on the same page. Don't extensively talk about sex unless the subject comes up and let the best of your personality shine. Dates that end in sex are usually passionate, hot, and very personal.

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Great Oral Sex Tips That Will Drive Her Wild

The ability to give a woman satisfying oral sex is a skill that remarkably few men possess. But nothing will bring her to a shuddering orgasm faster than your ability to use your mouth on her. Here are some tips you can use to great effect to have her begging for more:

Start slow. Don't rush straight in for the prize. The slower you go the greater the intensity of her climax. Use your hands as well as your tongue to explore all the areas around her clitoris before you finally put your attentions there. Women do prefer to go a lot more slowly than men, although the peak of their intensity can be higher. If you think you are going slow - slow it down even further. Wait for her to ask you to go faster; you will drive her wild with desire.
Tease the rest of her body with your mouth. Don't immediately go for her clitoris, or even her genital region. Remember that a woman's whole body is her sex organ. Explore her whole body with your tongue and lips. Aside form arousing her it will get her thinking what pleasures await her when you finally do go down on her.
Approach her clitoris from the side. Men generally perform oral sex on a woman by kneeling between her legs. But you can create an entirely new sensation for her if you kneel or lie beside her and lick her from that angle. Experiment a little and surprise her.
Use your fingers. While your tongue is working on her clitoris, use your fingers to stimulate the rest of her vaginal area and its surrounds (don't forget her inner thighs). You can even put one or two fingers inside her. This makes oral sex even more pleasurable for her.
Don't stop immediately. After she climaxes, don't stop performing oral sex on her immediately. Unlike a man, who can be sensitive to the point of experiencing pain if he continues to be stimulated after an orgasm, a woman can continue to feel great pleasure. Go a bit more gently, but you may even bring her to climax again.

Learn to listen to a woman's body as you perform oral sex on her. There is no greater skill a man can have in a woman's eyes than being a master of oral. Try these tips and judge the results for yourself.

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Why Sex With A Crazy Woman Is Great

Your friends have been warning you for months about this woman you're dating. They tell you not to stay with her.

You tell them that it's the best sex of your life. She's nurturing, loving and amazing.

Alright, maybe she loses it once in a while. Maybe when she drinks she has multiple personalities -- not just one, but three or four. Maybe she's just a little rambunctious and a little embarrassing at some of your office parties.

That's all okay, though, because you wake up every Saturday morning and she does things sexually that no one else has ever done before. She wears skimpy little outfits around the house all the time. If you have a rough day, she completely caters to you.

Then one time you disagree with her and have a little bit of an argument in which you contradict yourself about something. So she decides to sneak into your emails and reads them. When you catch her, she tells you she won't do it again and that she'll "be a good girl" from now on. She even uses that terminology to make you feel like you're the daddy -- the man in control -- and will say to you in a baby voice "Oh baby, I'll never snoop again. This is the first time I ever snooped."

I have heard that from these crazy women. The first time you've ever snooped? You're 32 years old, and you just decided today for the first time that you were going to snoop?

These crazy women will lie. They're never quite sure where they were during the day when you ask them. They manipulate.

If you don't have enough sex with them, they will give you a play-by-play report of what they did that afternoon with their vibrator. You think it's so cool. So you decide that you're going to break the "man law" and date this woman.

The "man law" is that you have sex with the crazies and marry the great ones. You don't marry the crazy ones, because that crazy woman is going to turn into the crazy mother of your children one day.

Despite the "man law," you make the decision to date her because the sex is so addicting. It's great getting hot text messages in the middle of the day when she decides to masturbate in her office while everyone was there.

You love this stuff. She's crazy, she's wild, she's fun, but she's insane.

So now your best friend has come to you and told you not to do it. Don't date this woman any more. Let me tell you what to do in this situation.

The crazy ones only get crazier with age. They don't get more mellow. Your life will be a life of great sex, but emotional instability.

Just wait until she's pregnant for nine months, and all the hormones are kicking in. Let me tell you, even the sane ones are insane when they're pregnant. Wait until she feels fat after pregnancy and you make one comment asking her if she is going to lose the weight. See what happens then.

The crazy ones are great to have sex with, but don't marry them. It's almost like when you're playing monopoly. You don't want that get out of jail free card with the crazy ones, you want to stay in jail.

Enjoy the sex, but think to yourself, "How stable is this woman going to be with the kids? How stable is she going to be once I move my way up the corporate ladder and we actually win the trip to Hawaii? Do I really want my wife to be topless at the company pool? Do I want her hitting on the other women at the office party?"

It might be hot right now that she's willing to do all these crazy things, including having her best friend over for a three-way. The problem is that if you marry this crazy woman you might lose out on a lot of other things in life -- sanity, promotions and stability.

Take some advice from a friend of mine who once married one of these crazy women. You can't just them -- 50% of what you own (and then some) will be in their pocket. Crazy women are irrational, and if you try to divorce them they get even and they'll take you for everything you're worth.

Welcome to adult adolescence -- the one where you need to choose between being with the sexual dynamo who is a crazy woman, and going out to find one who is just a little more mellow and a little more sane.

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David Wygant a leading personal dating coach, dating advice professional and image-maker. For 20 years David Wygant has worked to earn the trust of American men and women looking to transform their love lives. David has a wealth of free dating advice available including free dating videos.

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