2011/07/02
Pleasing a Woman Properly
What to Do When Your Woman Doesn't Want Oral Sex Performed on Her
You want to give your woman pleasure and you know you can do it through oral sex, but she will not allow you to go ahead and show her how you can make her feel. This is frustrating because all you want to do is to make her feel good!
There are many different reasons why a woman will not let you go ahead and give her oral sex. One thing that it does not have anything to do with is withholding oral sex from you on purpose. She wants you to make her feel good and she is not purposely denying you the feeling that making her feel good would give you.
Trust me, she wants you to feel good about yourself and feel like you can pleasure her. But there is another barrier that is in the way of allowing you to do so.
I can't personally say which barrier she is putting up and why, but you can ask her which one of the following reasons may apply to her and because you have taken interest into the real reasons behind her denying you oral sex she may choose to open up and tell you exactly what her fears and concerns are about the whole situation.
Here are a few of the reasons she may be denying oral sex and a few suggestions on how to deal with it:
1. She's Worried What You Will Think When You Are Down There
This is probably the most common reason. Women are not always comfortable with their own bodies and especially their private regions. The worry about the taste, smell, and even appearance of their vagina and they don't want to turn you off of them completely, so instead they choose not to let you give them oral sex.
You can try assuring her that you love the way she smells, tastes, or looks down there. If you say it enough times, with conviction, then she may start to believe it and allow you to give her oral pleasure without worrying about what you are thinking.
If you don't have proof that you love the taste, smell, or look than assure her that you love her and you love her whole body without judgment. She may eventually allow you to go down. But remember that she will be watching your every move and listening to your every noise for a sign of disgust. If you accidently give off a sign then she will immediately halt oral sex and may deny you from doing it again. So be aware of your noises and movements.
You can also reassure her that every woman looks different down there and that she is unique and amazing to you. Most women do not realize that the way their vagina looks is okay and unique to them. Not all women's vagina's are created equal!
2. It Hasn't Felt Good In The Past
She may not want to give you access down there because the last time she had oral sex it did not feel good. In fact it may have downright hurt her! This is common when women do not know their own bodies and know how to direct men during oral sex, and it is also common when men do not know how to give their women oral pleasure.
You can fix this by assuring her that you have read up on how to please a woman orally and you have picked up some skills that will cause her pleasure and not pain. Tell her that she can tell you if it hurts or feels bad and you will adjust and do something else.
The rub here is that you will actually have to have read up and learn some pleasure-giving skills! If you haven't, and you end up hurting her again, then she may not trust you a second time.
You can also allow her to figure out what feels good by buying her a vibrator and encouraging her to use it on herself. Once she knows the right spots and pressure that makes her feel good she will be more able to direct you to those spots and adjust your pressure.
3. She's Been Abused
The statistics for women who have been sexually abused is shocking. It's no wonder that these women don't always want to allow their men to get up close and personal with areas of their bodies that are sensitive and have been used against their will.
In this case she may need help getting through her fear of abuse and the feelings attached to that fear. She will have to do that on her on.
All you can do is offer her the love and support of a good man and assure her that you will never hurt her in that way - ever. This means that you can't force yourself on her physically or mentally ever. If you do then you will lose her trust completely and will never get a chance to prove yourself to her.
Don't constantly badger her to give her oral sex but instead let her know that you want to pleasure her in every way you can. She will have to come around to allowing you to give her oral sex on her own.
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2011/06/24
How to Make a Woman Climax in the Fusion Sex Position
Now I can almost see you visualizing the look on your woman's face as you are making her climax in Fusion sex position. No doubt about it, if you are reading this, then odds are pretty good that you want to learn how make a woman climax in the Fusion Sex Position.
As long as you think you are good enough to make a woman orgasm then you will be glad to know that as you continue to read this article you will begin to learn how to make a woman climax in the Fusion Sex Position and so much more.
How to Make a Woman Climax in the Fusion Sex Position!
Begin to focus on your natural breathing rhythm so that as you read one of the best ways to get into the Fusion sex position it will resonate within your entire state of being which believe it or not will allow you to get in rhythm with her body during the sex act and lead to the kind of explosive orgasms that will have her begging for more.
When it comes to the Fusion sex pose the best way to get into this sexual position is going to be by sitting in a straight legged position while she sits on top of you as she leans back. Also for those of you who find the Armchair position to be a bit challenging this is a great alternative to that particular pose as well.
Now that you have begun to realize how to get into this position you are quite naturally wondering how in the world are you going to make a woman climax in this position.
Indeed you might find it particularly surprising that when it comes to making a woman climax in the Fusion sex position actually prepping her for a climax in this position by stimulating her clitoris to orgasmic bliss is going to be one of the most effective ways to do so.
And when it comes to stimulating her clitoris into orgasmic bliss you have several options to choose from as you can use your fingers, mouth, or penis to stimulate her in so many different ways.
Once you have given her a couple of orgasms through clitoral stimulation you will find it much more simple and powerful to make her climax in the Fusion sex position.
While it isn't a secret that the Fusion position when done correctly can lead to some extremely intense and powerful g-spot orgasms what you may not realize is that your penis size and girth will play a high role on her ability to feel any type of stimulation on her g-spot.
And while it is true that even if you have an average or smaller penis size you can still stimulate and her G-Spot depending on the angle you get in when it comes to the Fusion sex position you really don't have as much control over the penetration angle as you like which means if your penis size isn't big enough there really isn't much you are going to be able to do about it other than making sure that you bring her orgasmic bliss both before and after experimenting with this position.
In the end, if you are indeed seriously interested in learning how to make a woman climax then you are going to want to let yourself get to that point where you automatically find yourself enjoying the initial aspects of the sex act such as foreplay and stimulating her clitoris that way no matter what your penis size may be you will be able to give her the kind of sexual experiences that will have her begging for more night after night.
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2011/06/23
How to Make a Woman Orgasm in the See-Saw Sex Position
As a reaction to what you are about to learn you will find yourself more excited than ever to try the See-Saw sex position! Believe it or not, in this article you are going to learn how to make a woman orgasm in the See-Saw sex position in addition to learning a variety of different ways to make her orgasm again and again.
However, before we continue I want you to forget about all your worries and concerns about making her orgasm and understand that when you truly allow yourself to let go and relax you both will enjoy the sexual experience so much more.
How to Make a Woman Orgasm in the See-Saw Sex Position!
I want to first tell you about the simplest and most effective way to get into the See-Saw sexual position so that you can get a cleared picture of what you and your partner are about to get into.
How to Get into the See-Saw Position
The most effective way to get into the See-Saw sexual position is going to be by sitting up with your legs straight as she then sits on top of you with her legs planted on either side of you.
Now once you get into the See-Saw position you will quickly begin to realize that with a little bit of concentration on your part you can actually stimulate her clitoris while she is on top of you which is one of the most effective ways to send her into orgasmic bliss.
Hopefully by now you have already begun to realize that when it comes to making a woman orgasm stimulating her clitoris is going to be one of if not the most effective ways to do.
Of course, this is an interesting realization for many men in the sense that it also requires the least amount effort on their part. If you are like many guys out there, when it comes to making a woman orgasm it isn't so much about her enjoying the sexual experience rather it is about your own ego and sexual prowess.
If you want to learn how to make her orgasm because you want to stroke your own ego in regards to your sexual prowess then you can still stimulate her clitoris for the first couple of orgasms and then allow her to experience a g-spot orgasms through other means which is of course the ultimate goal of any man who is looking to prove his sexual worth.
However, it should be noted, that if you are looking to give a woman a g-spot orgasm more often than not you are going to need a bigger penis that is thicker than what the average man has. More than that, while you can eventually give her a g-spot orgasm through thrusting alone it will happen much more quickly and powerfully if you allow her to experience a few clitoral orgasms at the beginning.
And as if that wasn't enough, the more time you spend on sexual foreplay the easier it is going to be to give her clitoral orgasm. Then again, if you don't spend enough time engaging her in sexual foreplay you might begin to notice that she isn't interested in having sex as often as you like because you are failing to turn her on enough to be so aroused that she can handle the sensations that come from a clitoral orgasm.
In the end, no matter what your reasons for wanting to learn how to make a woman orgasm in the See-Saw sex position it is going to be in your best interest to spend a lot of time on foreplay and giving her clitoral orgasms that way if you have a bigger penis she will be able to experience that g-spot orgasm you've been wanting to give her.
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2011/06/22
Tips on How to Seduce a Woman You Work With - It Can Be Tricky So Read This First
There is a woman you work with whom you just cannot seem to get out your mind. You make small talk with her all of the time, trying to get in a little flirtation here and there. You enjoy this, but the reality is... you want more than that. You want to be able to find a way to make her want you, and you want to be able to go about it in a way that will not make things weird for you when you are at work. That can be complicated, that is for sure. The thing is, it does not mean that it cannot be done, because it can. You just have to be careful about how you go about seducing a female co worker.
Don't Rush Things...
When it comes to seduction, you never really want to rush things. However, when you are dealing with a situation that can be come "complicated" really easily, then you need to be even more aware of the need to have the timing down just right. Rushing things with a woman at a club? It does not matter so much, because you may or may not see her again. With a woman you work with, you KNOW that you are going to have to see her again, so timing is really a big deal.
Step One - You Need to Be Able to Fan The Flames...
Because of the fact that you need to get things just right, you want to "fan the flames," which really just means you want to get the attraction built up between you and her before you really make your move. If you can build up the attraction enough, then getting her to go out with you after work can be easy as pie. So how can you do this?
Flirt with her in a way that catches her off guard. Women will playfully flirt with male co workers all of the time and it really does not mean a thing. It's just a little fun while they are on the job. That's not the kind of flirting that you need to do. What you need to do is to take things just a little bit further, so that it catches her off guard and makes her realize that you are not just flirting the way that another co worker would.
Step Two - You Have to Take a Chance...
Once the attraction is built up between you and the woman you work with, then you need to do the next step and that is to actually take a chance and get her to go out with you. This can be done simply by suggesting that the two of you get together after work to let off some steam or just hang out. As long as the attraction really is there, then getting her to say yes should be easy.
Step Three - You Want to Lead Her With the Right Conversation...
Once you get her to go out with you, you cannot simply talk the way that you would on the job. The conversation has to be light and fun and it has to escalate to where you are using a little sexual innuendo here and there. You can kill any hopes that you have of being able to seduce a woman you work with if the conversation ends up stifling things between you and her.
Step Four - You Have to Make The Transition Back to Your Place...
Okay, so if you get her to go hang out with you, chances are it will not be at your apartment or hers. If it does end up there, that's good. If not, then you need to be able to make that transition. How do you do this? Well, the easiest way is to choose a place that is nearby where you live. Then use the conversation to lead to a point where you can suggest going back to your place and it just seems natural. Once you get her back to your place, it's on you to make things escalate even further.
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How to Seduce a Woman Into Bed - These Things Will Make It Impossible For You
Let's save all of the politically correct stuff for another day. There is not a straight, single man alive with a healthy libido who does not want to know how to seduce women into bed. Yeah, you might do the typical nice guy things like taking her out to dinner, buying her flowers, whatever else you might do to get on her good side, but the reason why you do those things most of the time-- it's with the hopes that you are going to be rewarded for it.
We all know that most men fail pretty badly when it comes down to trying to seduce a woman into bed. More single guys go home to be along on a Friday or Saturday night than they do with the company of a beautiful woman. So, it's pretty easy to think that seduction is pretty hard or that it has to be a hit or miss kind of thing. Well, it does not have to be that way. Not really.
There are some pretty common reasons why it does not happen for most guys, and as long as you know this, you can make sure that they don't get in the way for you.
Here are some things that will get in the way of you being able to seduce a woman into bed:
1. Your mindset for the night.
We all have bad days. We all have those days where it seems like nothing you want is going your way. On those nights, it's pretty much better to just stay at home. Being able to seduce a woman into bed is a BIG mind thing, and if your mind is not into it all the way, chances are it is not going to happen for you. Get your mind right and you are that much closer to getting what you want.
2. The logistics of the situation.
You want to take her home with you. You came with a friend in their car and where you are at, there are not many cabs that run late at night. There you go. Another situation where things could have gone your way, but the logistics did not play out in your favor. You have to get these down if you want to elevate your success rate of being able to get a woman into your bedroom.
3. She feels too much pressure.
Pressure can kill the situation really fast. You can be moving along, she seems to be responding just right, and then you do or say something that makes her feel pressured and that is the end of it. Make sure that you do not make a woman feel any pressure. Not if you want to go to bed with her. Part of making a woman feel secure is, she can't feel pressured in any way.
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2011/06/20
Pleasuring Your Woman - How to Perform Cunnilingus to Give Her Mind Blowing Orgasms
Are you looking for ways to pleasure your woman sexually? If yes, cunnilingus is your best friend.
Cunnilingus (oral sex for women) is one sexual activity that can almost guarantee to make any women orgasm... provided you use the right cunnilingus techniques.
According to a recent study, 81% of women reach orgasm after receiving oral sex and 88% of married women prefer cunnilingus as their preferred sex act.
The reason why women love cunnilingus is simple: It is the easiest way to reach mind-blowing orgasm. Period.
A woman's clitoris consists of more than 8,000 sensitive nerve endings ready for pleasuring. The amount of nerve endings in a clitoris is twice the amount of the penis.
If you are easily aroused when your partner stroke or lick your penis, can you imagine how pleasurable it could be for your lady if you just spend the effort to stimulate her clitoris?
However, the problem is, most men think any lick will do. Cunnilingus is more than just poking your tongue around her vagina or clitoris. Cunnilingus is not the same as licking an ice-cream. In fact, if you don't do it correctly, you are going to turn your girl off completely.
So how do you give a good cunnilingus? Here are some tips:
Tip One: Make sure she is sufficiently aroused. She cannot enjoy cunnilingus if she is not sexually turned on. This is where a lot of men make mistake. They tend to go for the clitoris too early in the game, which can cause a lot of pain if she is not sufficiently aroused yet. So spend some time on foreplay to arouse her before you head south. During foreplay, lick her breasts, neck, spine, inner thighs and earlobes. Do not forget to lock lips and women get really turn on by kissing.
Tip Two: Place your tongue on the left or right hand side of the clitoris and move it from side to side as if you are sweeping the floor. This is the easiest and most effective method to bring your girl to orgasm. Start off slowly and increase the pace when you see she is enjoying it.
Tip Three: Take her clitoris inside your mouth and suck on it. Do it gently. Warning: DO NOT bite the clitoris or blow air into her vagina.
Tip Four: While licking her clitoris, insert your fingers into her vagina and try to reach for the g-spot. Girls can get 2 orgasms at the same time and your aim is to make her reach both g-spot and clitoral orgasms together. To find the g-spot, insert your index finger into her vagina and make a "come here" motion. The g-spot is located at the front wall of her vagina. Try to reach for a rough bump on the wall. Once you have found the g-spot, stimulate it by applying consistent pressure on it.
Tip Five: Vary the positions you perform cunnilingus. Don't always stick to one position as things get boring after some time. Spice up your lovemaking by getting into a new cunnilingus position.
Cunnilingus is simply the best and fastest way to make a girl orgasm. Try out the tips above and see the result for yourself.
However, if you are not able to last 2 minutes during intercourse, all your cunnilingus effort will go down the drain.
Women hate men that ejaculate too early into the game... especially if she has not reach a vaginal orgasm yet.
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How to Seduce a Woman Without Having to Play Games With Her
Are you the kind of guy who just does not feel right when you read about having to use crazy mind games to try and seduce a woman? Do you still have the urge to seduce women, as long as it takes a much more natural approach? If so, then pay close attention. Natural seduction is not outside the realm of possibility for any man, and truthfully, most regular guys will do much better when they try to seduce a woman from a much more natural approach, then if they try to use mind games to do the trick.
The funny thing about seducing a woman is, it's usually not at all like the way that guys will picture it. It has nothing to do with trying to manipulate a woman into doing anything. What it does have to do with, is being able to get things just right so that things escalate in the right direction. Basically, what every guy is trying to do, only in a much more effective way.
So, how do you seduce a woman without playing mind games with her?
Well, you do have to realize that even in natural seduction, there are some things that have to do with her mind. That is because of the simple fact that women are less enticed by the physical things and much more responsive to feelings, and the mind does play a big role in that. With that being said, you don't have to play any real ridiculous games with her mind, though. All you have to really do, is to find a way to connect with her in a way that brings out her passionate side.
When it comes to talking to a woman, most men are pretty bad at it, if their goal is to build attraction with her. That tends to be because they never do anything or talk about anything that brings out her passionate side. Do not ignore this, because the fact that you can bring out this side of her that no other man can will do wonders for you.
You also have to know how to use unspoken ways to build up her sexual attraction for you.
A key area that most guys miss out on, is that very little of communication between two people is the actual words that they use. Most of it happens on an unspoken level, from body language to the vibe that is there between you and her. Actually, using unspoken methods like adopting alpha male body language or giving her a feeling or vibe that a woman is totally safe and protected with you can be one of the most effective techniques that you can use to seduce a woman. Much more effective than any mind game that you can come up with.
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How to Seduce a Woman - How to Make Her HOT With Sexual Desire for You
What happens to most guys when they try hard to seduce a woman should never happen. It should never play out the way that it does. See, most guys are really unsuccessful when they try to seduce women. Instead of ending up in bed with the woman, they usually end up going home along, frustrated and wondering where they went wrong. While there are many possible reasons for this, most of them can all be best explained by just saying that they did not create enough sexual desire in the woman they were trying to get in bed.
Look, you can be the nicest guy in the world. You can have a great job and a cool car. You can be charming and she can have a really good time with you. You can be and do all of those things and still not end up in bed with her. If you don't know how to trigger a woman's sexual desire, then more often than not... you are going to end up striking out. So, you can see that you really NEED to know how to make a woman feel sexual desire for you.
But, how?
Here is some advice on how to make a woman HOT with sexual DESIRE for you:
While it is perfectly fine to be a nice guy, you don't want to be so nice that you come across like a pushover, If she senses that you are a nice guy, but you lack any real backbone, there is going to be no sexual desire there. You need to be able to toe the line between being a genuinely nice guy, and being a total pushover.
You also have to know how to tease a woman. Teasing a woman is probably one of the most effective ways to create a really strong sexual attraction between you and a woman, but most guys go about it completely wrong. They think that teasing a woman automatically means that you need to talk very sexually to a woman and that is not the case at all. You can tease a woman in many ways, and the more ways that you tease her, the more desire she is going to FEEL for YOU.
You have to be in the RIGHT environment.
This is another big key to actually getting a woman into bed with you and creating strong sexual desire with her. The logistics have to be right. If you are in the wrong kind of environment where she really does not feel safe and like she can be herself, it's probably not going to go down. You need to be able to get this part down right if you want to be able to get a woman into bed with you.
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2011/06/19
How to Turn On a Woman Sexually - She Doesn't Get Turned on The Same Way You Do!
Turning on a woman sexually is something that all straight men want to be able to do. And sometimes we trick ourselves into believing that we know how to do this without ever really thinking too deeply on it. The problem with that is, it's not always true. See, most guys learn what they know about turning on a woman from the worst sources. They learn from buddies who know about as much as they do. They learn from movies that are set up to appeal to what guys want to see... not to what really works to turn on a woman.
So, the uncomfortable reality is... most men are not as skilled at turning on a woman sexually as they like to think they are. And what is the reality of not being able to turn on a woman sexually? I think you know the answer to this one. You either won't get nearly as much action as you want or you might end up losing a woman you are dating just because she is not getting the pleasure and satisfaction that she desires from you.
Either way... You LOSE!
Here's a little advice on how to turn a woman on sexually:
1. She does not get turned on by the same things that get you going.
If you take away one tidbit from this article, this should be it. Women don't get turned on by all of the same stuff that men do. So, if you approach trying to turn her on and you do it using techniques and methods that get you going, there is a really good chance that it's NOT doing the trick. You want to really be able to get that chiseled into your mind and make sure that it stays there.
2. The environment plays a big role for her.
One really stark difference that applies to almost all women you are going to meet is... the environment does play a huge role in whether she gets turned on or not. If she is in an environment that she does not quite feel comfortable in, then chances are, it's not going to be a good place to try and get her turned on. For this, you have to get a good feel for her personality, because not every woman likes the same environment. Some are more adventurous than others.
3. Conversation leads to stimulation.
Both men and women can get really turned on by conversation, but for women, it takes a little more than it does for a guy. A woman could just flat out say the words... "I want you" and that would probably be more than enough to get you turned on, right? Well, for most women, you need more than three words. You need to be descriptive and creative. You need to kind of set up an image in her mind, something that she can feel and see.
The more you know about how to turn on a woman, the easier it is to seduce a woman into bed and make HER want YOU...
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2011/06/18
How To Drive Your Woman Wild - The Masters Method
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2011/06/17
How to Get a Woman Into Bed - 5 Simple Tips to Get Your Desired Women Into Bed
Are you looking for ways to get a woman into bed? Do you always end up going back alone after a late night out to a pub because you can't seem to get any girl interested to go back with you?
If you answer yes to any of the 2 questions above, this article is for you.
Some men have very low confidence in themselves when it comes to getting a woman into bed. I do not understand why, maybe it is because they have tried and failed for a few times. But this should not stop them from trying in the future.
If you failed once, it does not mean you can't seduce a woman sexually and get lucky for the night. All you have to do is to learn how to do it correct and take action. Keep on trying until you succeed.
Getting a woman into bed is not rocket science and any man who is willing to learn and take action can do it. If a short, plump dude can do it, I am pretty sure you can do it too!
Every woman has that magic button. When pushed, you will get her into the mood for sex. The question is, do you know where is the magic button?
In this article, I will share with you some of things that can really turn on a woman and how you can seduce them into bed.
Tip One: Say the right word. Tell a woman she is sexy, lovely and hot. Women love to hear nice words. This is the first step to seduce a woman.
Tip Two: Flirt with her. Send her some suggestive text or touch her slyly when the both of you are out in public. This creates lots of sexual anticipation and set her mind for some sexual imagination.
Tip Three: Don't be pushy. Be patient when you are not getting head ways. Nothing is more of a turnoff than when a man seems to expect it and gets impatient when it is not happening.
Tip Four: Don't make her feel that the only thing you want is sex. No matter how badly you want it, you need to keep your cool. Don't rush her. The more you rush her, the less likely you will get lucky.
Tip Five: Show her what you can do with your hand. Give her a sensual massage that will only invite more action. Pay special attention to her back, shoulders and neck. Give her light kisses and tell her you can't wait to get into her. Spend a few minutes cuddling before you get into the real action.
One thing to note is that you MUST last long enough to satisfy your girl after you have got her into bed with you. If not, it will be a REAL TURN OFF.
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2011/06/16
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2011/06/15
Pleasing Your Woman - How to Use Your Fingers to Bring a Woman to Orgasm
Learning how to please your woman with your fingers is a hot topic in many sexuality forums recently. Other than your manhood, your hands are the next best tools during lovemaking.
When a man fingers a woman correctly, the pleasure she will be getting is enough to propel her to orgasm heaven.
However, good fingering technique is more than just poking your finger in and out of her vagina. In fact, if you do it incorrectly, you will cause a lot of pain and discomfort that will turn a woman off completely.
Learning how to finger a woman well is a trick that you should master under your sleeve. Now, let me share with you some tips to give a good fingering experience to a woman:
Tip One: Trim your fingernails and wash your hands before inserting your fingers into her vagina. Long fingernails can cut her and cause pain. For hygiene purposes, it is also better to keep your fingernails short.
Tip Two: Start off slowly. Don't get overly excited from the beginning. Start lightly, get her in the mood and slowly increase the pace of your strokes.
Tip Three: Use a lubricant. Lubricant makes the whole process smoother and thus more pleasurable for her.
Tip Four: Look for the g-spot. Insert your index finger into her vagina with your palm facing upward. Your aim is to try to reach her belly button with your finger. While you are going deep inside her, make a "come here" motion with your finger and try to feel for a rough bump at the front wall of her vagina. That is the g-spot.
Tip Five: Stimulate the g-spot. Once you have located the g-spot, press hard on it. Rub it and observe her response. Ask her how she feels and whether she wants you to go faster.
Tip Six: Follow her movement. If you are going things correctly, she should be thrusting and moving her hips. Try to time the motion of your fingers with her thrusts. Take note that incorrect timing will result in a loss of orgasm. You should feel her tighten up as well as moan as she nears orgasm. Go for the finishing line!
Hope that you have gathered some ideas on how to finger a woman and give her an orgasm.
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2011/06/14
Why Sex With A Crazy Woman Is Great
Your friends have been warning you for months about this woman you're dating. They tell you not to stay with her.
You tell them that it's the best sex of your life. She's nurturing, loving and amazing.
Alright, maybe she loses it once in a while. Maybe when she drinks she has multiple personalities -- not just one, but three or four. Maybe she's just a little rambunctious and a little embarrassing at some of your office parties.
That's all okay, though, because you wake up every Saturday morning and she does things sexually that no one else has ever done before. She wears skimpy little outfits around the house all the time. If you have a rough day, she completely caters to you.
Then one time you disagree with her and have a little bit of an argument in which you contradict yourself about something. So she decides to sneak into your emails and reads them. When you catch her, she tells you she won't do it again and that she'll "be a good girl" from now on. She even uses that terminology to make you feel like you're the daddy -- the man in control -- and will say to you in a baby voice "Oh baby, I'll never snoop again. This is the first time I ever snooped."
I have heard that from these crazy women. The first time you've ever snooped? You're 32 years old, and you just decided today for the first time that you were going to snoop?
These crazy women will lie. They're never quite sure where they were during the day when you ask them. They manipulate.
If you don't have enough sex with them, they will give you a play-by-play report of what they did that afternoon with their vibrator. You think it's so cool. So you decide that you're going to break the "man law" and date this woman.
The "man law" is that you have sex with the crazies and marry the great ones. You don't marry the crazy ones, because that crazy woman is going to turn into the crazy mother of your children one day.
Despite the "man law," you make the decision to date her because the sex is so addicting. It's great getting hot text messages in the middle of the day when she decides to masturbate in her office while everyone was there.
You love this stuff. She's crazy, she's wild, she's fun, but she's insane.
So now your best friend has come to you and told you not to do it. Don't date this woman any more. Let me tell you what to do in this situation.
The crazy ones only get crazier with age. They don't get more mellow. Your life will be a life of great sex, but emotional instability.
Just wait until she's pregnant for nine months, and all the hormones are kicking in. Let me tell you, even the sane ones are insane when they're pregnant. Wait until she feels fat after pregnancy and you make one comment asking her if she is going to lose the weight. See what happens then.
The crazy ones are great to have sex with, but don't marry them. It's almost like when you're playing monopoly. You don't want that get out of jail free card with the crazy ones, you want to stay in jail.
Enjoy the sex, but think to yourself, "How stable is this woman going to be with the kids? How stable is she going to be once I move my way up the corporate ladder and we actually win the trip to Hawaii? Do I really want my wife to be topless at the company pool? Do I want her hitting on the other women at the office party?"
It might be hot right now that she's willing to do all these crazy things, including having her best friend over for a three-way. The problem is that if you marry this crazy woman you might lose out on a lot of other things in life -- sanity, promotions and stability.
Take some advice from a friend of mine who once married one of these crazy women. You can't just them -- 50% of what you own (and then some) will be in their pocket. Crazy women are irrational, and if you try to divorce them they get even and they'll take you for everything you're worth.
Welcome to adult adolescence -- the one where you need to choose between being with the sexual dynamo who is a crazy woman, and going out to find one who is just a little more mellow and a little more sane.
Author Info:
David Wygant a leading personal dating coach, dating advice professional and image-maker. For 20 years David Wygant has worked to earn the trust of American men and women looking to transform their love lives. David has a wealth of free dating advice available including free dating videos.